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People. You better pay attention. This blog post is probably one of the most important posts I've ever done...not because of what I have to say...but because it's going to include blogging advice from the absolute best bloggers out there. Period. I am sooooo excited! Let's get started...
I began blogging on August 3, 2007. That was a really awful summer...by August 3, I had been trying to get pregnant for a year, I had already had one miscarriage and two failed IUIs. I was hormonal (thanks to all of the infertility drugs) and cranky. So, what did I decide to do? Blog. I knew I would never be one of those people to scrapbook. I don't like glue, glitter, cutting out paper, and trying to make things look creative. I decided that if I ever wanted to look back on my life, I needed an easy way to do so...thus, my online scrapbook (a.k.a. the blog) was born.
I remember the day I named it...shullfamily.blogspot.com. It was wishful thinking. I wasn't sure if Andrew and I qualified as a "family" but I had hopes and prayers that one day, we would add a little one to the group and make it a family. And so, almost 6 years later, here you are reading that little online scrapbook created by a cranky, infertile girl. Thank you.
I get asked at least 5 times a day about blogging. How I do it? How I make it successful? How I draw an audience? How I plan it? How I network? It is such a common topic but more importantly, such an important part of my life, that I knew it needed to be a Shade of Shay.
Most of you know two of my besties, Sheaffer (from Pinterest Told Me To) and Andrea (from Slightly Askew Designs)...well, the three of us talk about this topic all of the time because people ask all three of us the same blogging questions. Andrea is a blog designer, so I'm always amused at the questions and comments she gets...so often, she says women email her wanting to start a blog for a career, they want to be big and famous and really important in the blogging world (their words). Somehow, people have lost the idea that blogging is a hobby and automatically turned it into a career change.
So...I set out to ask the world's best bloggers for their advice on starting a blog, growing a blog audience or making an existing blog better. This is the best blogging advice you will ever find...
Sophie Hudson from BooMama Blog
Be yourself! Write in a voice that's uniquely yours, and don't feel like you have to have the same writing style as somebody else. Focus on building relationships, not traffic, because a genuine sense of community with your bloggy people makes the whole process so much more rewarding. Have fun!
Erin from Blue Eyed Bride
I think the keys to building a great blog are authenticity, community, and a genuine love for sharing your story. You have to do it because it's fun first, and then focus on growing it second. No "big blogs" got that way overnight. And the fastest and most organic way to grow it is by building a community. Reading other blogs, engaging your readers, and being someone that they can trust. Just be yourself, enjoy doing it, and the rest will fall into place.
Kelly Stamps from Kelly's Korner
My biggest advice for blogging is to blog for YOURSELF first. Blog because you enjoy it. Never let it become a "chore" or a "job". Write about things you love and don't ever worry about stats or how many readers you have or how many comments you get. Don't compare yourself to other bloggers. Blogging is such a personal thing and can be such an expression of who you are - don't let your identity or worth get tied up in how successful your blog is. Just blog for fun and to make memories!
Beth Jones from B. Jones Style
In any blog genre, it's always important to build relationships with other bloggers. Do collaborations together.. whether it is swapping recipes, clothes, or shooting something together. You can cross-promote each other and also build a fun friendship.
Make a general plan for each week. Do you want to post 3 times or 5 times a week. What will those posts be about. I usually do about 3 personal style posts, 1 fit and fabulous post, and 1 What Would Carrie Wear post.
The most important thing, is to actually love blogging. Most people don't realize how consuming it is, and if you're approaching it as a job, or just a way to generate income, that will come across to your readers...and be a total turn-off! If you're not willing to blog for free, don't do it.
Also, your blog can evolve and include a broader scope of topics, but always maintain your own voice. Readers like you for you, so don't change that as your blog grows. And I treat my readers just as I would real-life friends, by responding to questions and emails, and engaging with them. Making new friends that share the same interests as you, is the best thing about being part of the blogging community!
Melanie Shankle from Big Mama
I guess I'd say to make sure you connect with your audience. Every now and then people like to have some input or give advice or share their thoughts on something. It makes them feel connected to what you're doing and writing.
Sheaffer from Pinterest Told Me To
If you want to grow your blog quickly, my number 1 piece of advice: Be bff with The Bachelor's Sister. :) Oh, I'm just kidding. Except that I'm not. :) Seriously y'all. Being friends with Shay helped me grow my blog more quickly than I ever could have imagined. Shay is always so willing to link to me and throw people my way, which has obviously helped me grow my readership!
If you don't happen to have access to The Bachelor's sister, then there is one main thing you can do to grow your blog: Put out good material on a consistent basis.
That's my big advice. It sounds simple, because it is. Just put out good material. Good material will not only make readers come back again and again, but it will also make them tell their friends about you. Word of mouth is a powerful thing, and you will see your blog start to grow!
If you don't happen to have access to The Bachelor's sister, then there is one main thing you can do to grow your blog: Put out good material on a consistent basis.
That's my big advice. It sounds simple, because it is. Just put out good material. Good material will not only make readers come back again and again, but it will also make them tell their friends about you. Word of mouth is a powerful thing, and you will see your blog start to grow!
Dana Weiss from Possessionista
Don't write to make money. If you blog solely to monetize, it will be obvious to your readers.
Be original. Create something that you want or need that isn't currently available.
Listen to your readers. Even though sometimes criticism is hard, get to the kernel of what they're looking for.
Be open to criticism. Blogging is an organic process, so let your blog (and your interests) evolve.
Cara from Pearls, Handcuffs, and Happy Hour
I think the best piece of advice I could give is to be true to who you are. Don't blog for anyone but yourself. Blog in your own voice...about your own experiences...your own likes/dislikes...just be YOU. And it's okay to be vulnerable...no one is perfect :) Vulnerability is endearing. And SO relatable! I guess momma knew exactly what she was talking about when she said "just be who God made you." :) The quote that keeps coming to mind is "Don't be a watered down version of someone else." :)
Mel Larson from The Larson Lingo
My advice is this:
BE YOU.
Don't try and be like "this" blogger or "that" blogger.
Blog for YOU not for anyone else.
If you are blogging to make other people happy, then the point is missed.
You cannot write/blog for everyone. It's just like life. Some people will like you, others will not. You can't make everyone happy.
Blog about what makes YOU happy.
Blog about what makes YOU happy.
Blog about what YOU love. Write with YOUR voice.
We are all unique, our blogs should be as well!The blogs I love are where the blogger shares a lot of herself.
Let your readers get to know you. Get personal. Be vulnerable.
You don't need to be a complete open book, but it is important to be open.
As scary as that can be, I am learning that the more you are open, the more you realize you are not alone. That is the beauty of the blogging community.
As scary as that can be, I am learning that the more you are open, the more you realize you are not alone. That is the beauty of the blogging community.
Alison from Get Your Pretty On
One key element to successful blogging is to always write about and create what YOU like instead of trying to write for an audience. Trust your own voice and uniqueness and know that there is an audience out there waiting for exactly what you have to offer.
The sisters from Six Sisters Stuff
Use social media such as Pinterest, Twitter and Face Book. Participate and host in linky parties, connect with other bloggers, be consistent, write quality posts and stand out from the rest.
Mandy Rose from House of Rose
I think one of the main reasons that blogs fail is because people give up. So many bloggers starting out want to see instant results. They want instant readers, instant comments, followers, subscribers, etc. The key is to be consistent and keep going {even when you feel like it's going nowhere}. I can not tell you how many times I got discouraged because I wasn't "growing". But I quickly realized? Growing takes time. It's not something that happens overnight. You have to push through those times.
It's pretty hard to stand out in a blog world of over 165 million blogs. It's safe to say that the Internet is saturated with blogs, right? One thing you MUST do as a blog creator is HAVE A VOICE. If you are simply writing about what everyone else is writing about or not speaking from your heart because you are afraid you may offend someone...then you will just blend in with the rest of the blogs out there that are going nowhere. Blending in does not get you noticed. For example: If you are writing about fashion then don't just post about "fashion" in general. Be specific and write about "How to Dress in Style After Having Three Kids and No Time To Shower". Or if you are writing about fitness don't just write "How to Stay Fit". Instead write about "How To Kick the Last Few Pregnancy Pounds Doing Crossfit".
And...you need to check out Mandy and her husband Jeff's other blog called Dollars and Roses...it's about how they both quit their jobs and blog full-time for a living.
I really don't have to say much after that, do I? That is the most valuable blogging advice you will ever see in one place. Thanks to all of my friends who gave me their best advice. I adore each of you!
Not that you need anything else...but here are my best blogging tips...
1. Be yourself
2. Blog as a hobby (if money comes, great...but always think of it as a hobby)
3. Always tell the truth on your blog
4. Don't try and compare yourself or your numbers to anyone else
5. Network with other bloggers
6. Be real...don't be fake. People can spot a fake blogger (I know several of them).
7. Give credit and/or ideas you use back to the source. If you love something another blogger is doing (a recipe, outfit, blog topic...) give them their credit on your blog.
8. Use photos, pictures, graphics...make it visual.
9. Be organized and consistent
10. Have boundaries for some parts of your life but be authentic and genuine with what you do share
11. Engage and interact with your readers. Reply to comments and emails...let them know you are having a conversation with them.
12. Keep your voice but don't be afraid to branch out and let your blog change over the years. It might organically morph into something new...that's ok. As long as it's the direction you want to head, go with it.
13. Use other forms of social media to draw people to your blog (Twitter, Face Book, Instagram, Pinterest).
14. Have fun. And if you stop having fun, stop blogging.
And don't forget, check out my other Shades of Shay by clicking here.
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My Buffalo Chicken Tostadas! And they're so simple too! Check out my foodie blog for the recipe.
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